The sex industry is fascinating to me. No doubt the adult industry and all the explicit porn materials have really changed who I am and I'm just so happy and proud of it because I used to be a very shy and introverted girl. I was taught that I must be a virgin untill I became an adult. My mother was overprotective and she watched every single step I made untill I was 18. I am not saying she was wrong, I am just saying she played her part and the life/sex lessons she gave me turned me into someone I later realized I did not want to be.

So, with small steps and the right man by my side, I started to realize who I am and what I like. By saying this, I'm not talking only about sex, I am tallking about me, my life goals, my career and my secret wishes.

I am 26 years old now and believe me when I say this: I never ever missed a chance of exploring my sexuality. I just love having sex! With the right man, of course. I could go on about why it is so important to be with the right person, but that's not why I am writing this article.
I am writing to let you know why I enjoy rimming so much!

First of all, please know that I am into rough sex and I have a vivid imagination. I watch a lot of amateur porn and whenever I see something that I like, I must try it for myself. Sometimes, there are some sex scenes that are just a source of inspiration for me and from there, I add some salt or sugar and I create my own fantasy. And yes guys, I love anal sex and I give blowjobs because it makes me so so horny. Licking, sukcing or kissing that cock and of course the balls.

From the first moment I had anal sex, I loved it! I started to want it more and more and I received what I asked for. I remember the first time my bf massaged my asshole with his fingers and some oil and then with his lips and tongue. OMG, at first I felt a bit uncomfortable feeling his tongue trying to enter my asshole and didn t know what to do at the start.

I want to share details about my rimming experince because it felt amazing.

So it was the first time someone licked my ass and it was also a first time for him. From this point, we discovered how much we liked it and I started to feel this urge from him to have me do the same to him. I reasearched it, read a lot and saw lot of vids just to understand if it worked the same for a man as it did for a woman.

With small steps, now I am an experinced rimmer. :)

If I did not get rimmed or give a good tongue to my man's hole, my sex life would be incomplete. It is an extraordinary feeling when you get ready to hand over your most intimate area.

Here are some important things you must know before trying it:

• Tell your partner you want to do it.

• Share your fantasy, and what it is you desire the most.

• Do not fear you will be rejected because butts are taboo or off limits. In the end, this is why a rim job is so exciting. (After our first discussion about it ,I found myself eating his ass and unable to stop myself for 10 minutes. I licked his anus slowly with my tongue while I was touching his balls and perineum.)

• Look online for hygene rules. (Don t even think about doing a rim job on somebody if you are not clean. The fear of poop, farting, bad smell or the oral-anal play risks has alot to do with why people are embarassed and hesitate to take their sex lives to that next level. But see, it is very simple! Just jump in the shower, water and soap should be your best friend before rimming.

• If you are receiver, for extra safety you might also use an enema before washing and if you are giving, make sure you use oral protection. If you can't do that, swish with mouthwash or antiseptic afterwards to sanitize the area.
  Start with teasing!

• Because the area is sensitive, I advise you to start with light rubbing and you feel a tightening of their body don't worry, it is normal. If you start with a good teasing, you partner is more likely to let you work your way all around their body.

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There are multiple ways to be positioned while giving/receiving a rim job, but my favourite is to have my partner sit on my face while I give. He prefers to lay me face down with a pillow or 2 under my hips or lie me on my back pulling my ankles to my ears and expose my hole when he gives. If we want to do it together, we'll do it 69, so both of us can explore more than just the asshole adding extra sensitivity.

There is so much more to rimming that I could discuss, but I wanted to focus on what I think would be a good guide for beginners.

Thank you guys for reading this and remember : Your body is your temple!

<3 Aylinncummz