When it comes to dating these days, or even just meeting new people and making friends, it can be overwhelming with all or the different apps and websites. Now I'm sure most of you reading this have at least heard of or use the app Tinder, but what about all the other dating apps out there?

Coming from personal experience, it can be really hard to meet genuine, like-minded people who are interested in the same things as you, especially when it comes to things that are a little more taboo than others. A little over a year ago I came across an app that has quite honestly changed my life in such an amazing way. I know that sounds silly but it really opened up my mind to a whole other world I had no idea existed. My boyfriend and I had been talking about the idea of adding another women to our sex life. At that point we weren't really sure where to even begin, so after doing a little research we came across the app 3nder. Both of us were a bit skeptical about it at first but after getting to talk to people on it we realized there's so many people out there just like us looking for something different sexually which might not be very socially acceptable.

Fast forward a year and a half and here we are both happier and more fulfilled in every way than we've ever been before. Through this app, I was introduced to the "swinger" lifestyle. I'm sure when most people hear that word, "swinger" they just think of a bunch of senior citizens having an orgy but my experiences with the lifestyle have been far from that stereotypical image. I could go on about my introduction to swinging and that whole community of amazing, loving people but I'll save that for another time.

Regardless of your sexuality, I feel like anyone would be able to find what they're looking for on 3nder, whether that be sexual or just friendship. Ultimately what I want people to know is that no matter what you're into there's loads of others who are into the same thing even if at times you might feel like you're the only one.

Recently finding out that Tinder is looking to shut down 3nder only makes me happier to support a company like 3nder over a big, money hungry corporation. All I'm really wanting to do is just share the love. Having nothing but wonderful experiences with using 3nder, I would highly recommend it to any of you kinksters out there looking to find any sort of contact with others on the same wavelength.

If you agree that Tinder should leave 3nder alone, make sure to use #TinderSucksMySocks and post a pic of your dirty socks!

<3 Assleigh3