Since 2012 I've been shooting a LOT more Anal and Ass-to-Mouth scenes than in the 13 years before that. I've explained my new backdoor kink numerous times before so let's just say it has a lot to do with my submissive side and anal sex provided some new challenges and put me in new and exciting humilitating situations that I've recently learned to appreciate. However, I never really asked my better half why he went along so enthusiastically with me asking for more butt-sex so I decided on doing a short impromptu Q&A with him. Here are my questions and Hubby's view on all things anal:

Me: Do you prefer anal to vaginal intercourse and if yes, why?

Him: Anal provides more stimulation. Your asshole has that vice-grip at the entrance, and it feels warmer. Compared to your pussy there's more varied texture and feeling inside your ass, and I love the tightness and warmth. I love the pulsing, suction and massaging when I'm in your ass. In comparison the vagina seems much weaker and has basically the same soft wet textural feel along its entire length.

Me: Does Anal Sex lean towards the loving side of the erotic spectrum or ist it just more hardcore fucking?

Him: I'd say it's more intimate. You know the girl or wife must trust you and love you if she's open to ass fucking with you. She's more likely to reserve her butt for the ones she finds really special.

Me: Is Anal Sex normal or a perversion?

Him: It's just more taboo or kinky, it's not pathological if that's what you're getting at. Vaginal is just "normal" vanilla sex in comparison. Been there, done that.

Me: Is there a Dominance / Submission aspect to Anal Sex?

Him: Speaking for myself, it feels much more dominant than vaginal sex, and I like being dominant in the bedroom. I like overpowering you and penetrating you. I know how helpless and soft you get when I'm ramming your butt hard. You always told me you wanted to marry a "man's man". There you go, for better or worse. 

Me: Do you care about my orgasm when we're having Anal Sex?

Him: I know you don't come anally without pussy stimulation. But when I finger you simultaneously and you orgasm with me pounding your backside, the way your ass pulses around my dick is just the best feeling on earth.

Me: You're a visual guy, sexually speaking. You're a tit-man but not an ass lover in particular. Any thoughts on the visual aspect of butt fucking?

Him: Right. Good question. It IS more visually appealing in a way: the pussy looks like, to be blunt, a massive gash at times; whereas your ass makes a perfect ring around my dick. Don't get me wrong, I think your pussy looks very sexy in all of your videos and in private too of course; but the way your ass wraps around my dick is just visually spectacular in my mind at least.

Me: What about the logistics of Anal Sex? Lube, slow-penetration, more lube, clean-up etc.?

Him: One upside of vaginal sex is that it doesn't require all the lube and preparation work. You can just get your clothes off and go for it, if that's what you feel like. On the other hand, I actually really enjoy the build-up to anal. So maybe this is another one for the "pro" column. 

Me: You don't cum in my pussy a lot. Hardly ever, I'd say, since I mostly swallow. Any thoughts on ejaculating anally?

Him: You can cum in a woman's ass without worrying about birth control or pregnancy. I'm not a fan of condoms. 

Me: You silver-tongued devil.

Him: I aim to please. Both verbally and non-verbally.