Size matters, size doesn't matter. This debate is an ongoing topic. Many guys that aren't blessed with an above average dongle would argue that size doesn't matter. And to a degree, that's true.

But then, there are guys who go the opposite direction. To rather have women humiliate them and mock them for having a small pecker.

Enter Small Penis Humiliation.

This is a genre of fetish that is quite common across ManyVids. Plenty of MV Stars have at least one SPH clip in their content offerings.

To briefly describe, SPH is where a woman (or multiple women) insults and thereby shames the guy for having a tiny penis. Its focus mainly lies in humiliation. Henceforth, the name.

In terms of how small we are talking, the average penis length when erect is 5.1 inches. So men below that number (or even at around that number) may feel that they are small. There is also a medical condition called Micropenis, which is a condition where the man’s penis is anywhere below 2.8 inches when erect.

As to why men are into SPH, there are no concrete scientific studies on what makes a man enjoy being humiliated by a woman for not being enough of a man. However, interviews with men within the SPH community have revealed that these problems are deeply psychological as well as personal, in which men find themselves being turned on by the fact that they are being shamed for having a small penis. Some say that it’s very contradictory. It makes their hearts sink, but it also turns them on sexually like no other. Some just say that they have no idea.

All right, enough guessing though. Let’s get a professional in here. Here’s GoddessKristie.

"How did you first get into SPH?"

This is really a funny story, when I was 16 I was dating a genuinely sweet guy. I really liked this guy a lot. He was funny, sweet, thoughtful and practically worshipped me. However he had one big problem, or should I say small?

He had a micropenis. He honest to god had the tiniest dick I had ever seen; even to this day. I never mentioned it to him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings, by pointing out that his cock was barely 2 inches. It was only a few years later when I was describing the world’s smallest dick to my fiancé that I realized I was having a lot of fun teasing and laughing about my ex's dick. I enjoyed knowing his cock wasn't good enough for me, I loved describing how comically small it is to my friends, and I especially loved the power that comes with controlling a little dick. Since then, I have explored the SPH fetish more deeply and have continued to love every second of it!

"What about SPH do you think turns a man on?"

I think because many men are born with a less than average sized dick and they are heavily ridiculed for it. As time goes on, their mind tries to heal from the trauma of being bullied so severely, or adjust to make up for their insecurities. So their mind helps them heal by finding sexual pleasure in being teased about their little cock.

Another reason may be that they enjoy the power exchange. When you tease someone about never being able to please you or about having a tiny prick, you're taking away their masculinity. You are taking away any kind of control they may have in bed because they know that their cock couldn't please you, so what’s the point of trying to act like a dominant man?

I also think that some men enjoy knowing that their cock can't please a girl. They love knowing that no matter what they do, their dick isn't good enough for her. It is very erotic to be mercilessly teased by a seductive woman, especially when the man realizes that she is his forbidden fruit. He can beg all he wants for her body, but she will never give it to him because he isn't a man enough.

"What exactly makes a great SPH session? Is it just about how small it is, or is there something else to it?"

This is actually a really good question! Small Penis Humiliation isn't always about the guy having a small cock. I have seen guys with above average dicks that love SPH. I believe SPH is an art form. If a lady wants to give a great SPH show, she has to balance between harsh humiliation and teasing with her body. SPH can be a cruel fetish, but it also requires a sensual description and a creative mind. There are only so many times you can call someone's cock little before it just seems repetitive and boring. In order for the woman to make sure she doesn't begin reiterating the same names over and over again, she has to be able to come up with new names and descriptive scenarios to tease with.

"Have you ever felt like, 'maybe that was a bit too much?' Or is more always better in SPH?"

Oh god yes I have. I have seen some girls telling guys to commit suicide because their penis is small. That is way over the top and not sexy at all! A guy wants to be shown what he can never have, and be told why he isn't good enough for her body. He doesn't want to be given death threats or made to feel like complete garbage. Like I previously stated, SPH is an art form. The domme has to find a balance between being a cruel women and showing the guy she is the ultimate fantasy. She needs to show him she could be his nirvana, but he will never actually achieve that.

Thank you very much GoddessKristie for the fascinating insights into SPH.

So, what are your thoughts on SPH? I'd like to hear from you, whether you're a model who makes SPH vids or you're someone who enjoys SPH content. Leave a comment down below.

- Jin