Not only do I dominate clients over the Internet, with webcam and videos, I also am a professional dominatrix in real life. In fact, I started working as a domme in 2011 at 20 years old, so this has been my career for the past 6 years. The videos you see on my profile are of me dominating my real life submissives, with whom I've built a relationship over the years. I always had fantasies of dominating men. I had fantasies of twisting their cocks and nipples and making them cry. As I discovered porn, I found even more ways I would like to dominate men. 

The house I live in is a rental. The basement was another apartment at one point, maybe 30 years ago, and had since fallen into disrepair. I liked the idea of it as a dungeon. I thought it made a nice dungeon area. I quickly ordered some whips and toys on Amazon, painted and did a few alterations to the basement, added some door handles to furniture to attach restraints to, and I was ready. 

At first, interacting with new clients did not come easy. The job was more difficult than I thought it was going to be. People had fetishes that I hadn't even heard of. I got bladder shy while giving golden showers. I didn't have the right toys, and I didn't have any experience. As I matured and became more experienced, it got easier. I developed a regular clientele, and I began to understand their fetishes. I began to know intuitively what they would like or not like. I think getting to know the sub is very important for a professional domme. 

I think the most difficult thing about being a domme is figuring out what the client wants. A lot of times, the client is hesitant to actually tell me what they want me to do. Some people are very ashamed of their desires. I think some people think that I'm going to read their minds. I find that the easiest way is for me to ask the client to show me a domination porno that turns them on, and try to base the appointment around that. The easiest thing about being a domme is being my own boss. I can schedule appointments around my free time. It is easy for me to decide to go on a trip at the spur of a moment. I don't really have long-term responsibilities. 

Some of my subs wanted to be filmed and have the video put online. This was a big turn on to them. Also, there were many men from out of town who wanted Skype shows. I figured, why not? It will be fun and I might make a little money. And that is how my career as a camgirl and amateur vid maker got started.

I think the biggest difference between being an online domme and a real-life domme is that people have a lot less inhibition online. They feel comfortable in the privacy of their own home, and there is a sense of anonymity on the internet, even when camming with someone. In real life, the clients and I live in the same area, and there is more chance of us running into each other. Also, real-life interaction with a person is quite different from seeing them on a screen. The blows from my paddle can be felt on their behind. I think online sessions can often be a lot more intimate because there is less inhibition from both the client and me.

I definitely love being a pro domme and I will continue for as long as I can. The internet is a great way to make some extra money and attract new customers, and I'm really glad that I started camming. I think being a dominatrix is the best job ever!

Liz Lovejoy