Why I Love Roleplay

Get creative and naughty at the same time!

Jan 16 2018 24 comments 3,674

I love to roleplay. This is my number one favorite thing to do both on webcam, in video and in bed with my partner. I've always been into dressing up, but I have never actually done any roleplay in-person with someone until my most recent relationship and let me just say I feel that the act has brought us even closer.

Roleplaying is a bonding experience even when webcamming or fulfilling a custom video request. I get to know my client's or boyfriend's innermost fantasy in detail so much so that I usually begin to visualize what they are picturing in my head too. This is very fun for me because it feels like they are sharing their biggest secret and I'm the lucky one who gets to know such a private part of their mind. Once I understand the idea, I can be inspired to add to their fantasy, which inspires them to expand their sexual wonderland and that's where a bond is formed. I've noticed that having this bond usually creates loyal fans who keep coming back and are less likely to forget me anytime soon because I have integrated myself into their fantasy, into their mind, so that everytime they recreate their wonderland I will be there.

Taboo roleplay tends to be my favorite simply because of the naughtiness. What I've realized is that just because one might fantasize about something, it doesn't necessarily mean they want a reality of that fantasy. For example, I was molested and sexually assaulted at a young age, the experience was in no way enjoyable and I would never wish such a thing upon myself again nor to anyone else. However, I have done age play with even my boyfriend and many clients, but mutually felt turned on by the experience. The key is for the experience to always be mutual. When I was literally at such a young age, there was no way for me to consent nor for the feeling to be mutual because I was too young, but with me being older now, the concept can be turned into a mutual fantasy. There are some clients that try to really cross the fantasy line by asking too many personal questions about my real taboo experience from when I was younger or even try to recreate it, and I find that when someone tries to cross that line, it is no longer roleplay or fantasy so I dismiss it. We all have our limits and viewers need to remember to respect that and to never ask personal questions even for his/her satisfaction.

Another example where one might fantasize without desiring the actual reality of would be hentai. I've watched a lot of hentai growing up, and in fact I prefer that over people porn, but I was caught off guard when I masturbated to a hentai scene with a giant horse capturing a heroine and filling her up with his giant horse cock. I reached a full climax to the hentai scene as well and I thought there was something seriously wrong with me, although, I didn't look at horses any different. Not once have I ever looked at a real horse and thought about being fucked by said horse because in my fantasy hentai world the horse had man traits, not horse traits, hence fantasy and reality are vastly different. I think it is very important to be able to separate the two because roleplay certainly ventures into very naughty areas such as blackmail and incest because in a fantasy the sky is the limit, that's why as long as one has an imagination, roleplay can never get boring. 

If roleplay can never get boring then sex will also always be exciting and the act brings a relationship closer together because it shows that one is constantly inspiring the other. When I decide to dress up for my boyfriend and tell him to roleplay as the big bad wolf or as my professor, it is because he has inspired me to do so and I am comfortable enough with him to actually be open about it. Another factor that plays into being able to share my roleplay fantasy with my boyfriend is trust, and in return I have even inspired him with all sorts of naughty ideas. Roleplay also brings a lot of giggles into sex, it's never cut and dry, and it's never routine which is the point. It's all about stepping out my comfort zone, exploring my imaginations, his imaginations and bringing them together while respecting each other's limits.

When roleplaying on webcam it is important to probe because too many people ask, "do you do daddy-daughter roleplay?" and just expect a yes or no answer. I always make sure to respond,"yes" and then add a follow-up question,"what kind of daddy-daughter roleplay are you looking for? As in how old will I be? Will I be seducing you or will you be corrupting me?" and so forth. These questions are important, especially if you have limits on age play and taboo play. Every roleplay is unique no matter how common the idea may seem. Daddy-daughter is obviously a very common and known roleplay, but even that comes with unlimited variations so that no two experiences are the same.

An added bonus for camgirls that can really crack down roleplaying is that roleplay is time-consuming and usually exclusive only! It is nearly impossible and unfair to other viewers if only one person is getting undivided attention if everyone is paying to watch, that's why most viewers that want a roleplay experience will know that he has to take her exclusive. In exclusive it is one on one without others trying to grab her attention and where both can freely exchange ideas privately. As I mentioned, roleplay has several variations and directions it can go, so it is very very important that the viewer communicates when he asks to roleplay because camgirls are not mind-readers. 

One roleplay I haven't been able to nail personally is where I am the dominant figure, such as Giantess roleplay which is another very fun roleplay to do on cam. I was only ever able to successfully do one with a fan because he told me what to say pretty much every step of the way. Communication is key, and that's what makes roleplay unique to sex on every level.

Who else loves roleplay? List some of your favorites in the comments!

SweetxMelody

yesss i love roleplay too!:A i

Ahhh I love this post! Such a great explanation, perfectly describes how I feel about role play as well!

SlaveBC Jan 2018

Such a great explanation! I have personally never been able to see what draws people to roleplaying, but your article has totally opened my mind to see it in a whole different light. Thank you!!

Melody_Wylde
Melody_Wylde deleted Jan 2018

You're welcome! Thank you for reading XOXO

I love Roleplay my boyfriend loves it when I play helpless little girl then gangbangs me... lol

i love roleplay, my boyfriend played as saw once and wore the mask... it was so much fun :A

Melody_Wylde
Melody_Wylde deleted Jan 2018

Hahaha omg, that sounds thrilling

I like a woman that's into role play and cosplay.

I totally love roleplay! I discovered it whrn I became a sex  worker and its amazing. I love the daddy roleplay and age play. It's a huge turn on for me in my personal life

Aspen Snow Jan 2018

Role play heightens the fantasy😍

curvymodelmilf
curvymodelmilf deleted Jan 2018

💋

LYON18555 Jan 2018

Well holy ****, someone finally expressed exactly what all Roleplayers feel and think.  Ms. Melody is a hundred percent correct on everything she’s written. Especially the boundaries and the loyalty. I’ve done a quite a few customs with some of the best Roleplayers on MV and honestly worth the degree of effort and genuine emotion invested into my clips keeps me coming back for more! Great article!

Melody_Wylde
Melody_Wylde deleted Jan 2018

Thank you ☺️

I love roleplay. I am very kinky in my private life and playful. I love the nurse roleplay because I have the control in a soft way that is a good start for first roleplayers or first they receive orders.
I love to do custom videos and in them, in my favourite roleplay custom video order, I  was the painter (& model was to ***** for me).  I got so horny planing it that I draw a sketch and send them to my fan  !

Oh yeas I also love the classic job interview or play the innocent girl who is ordered to get milk and ask you where and how I have to take it out ^.^.Family tabus are very requested in my privates. But is in custom in with the people have the more original ideas and I love to be surprised by the naughty imagination .

Abe7700 Jan 2018

Waiting patiently for you to activate and start accepting custom videos lol...I check your profile periodically, but if things change, dm me when you think you'll be doing custom videos. Thanks...

Melody_Wylde
Melody_Wylde deleted Jan 2018

Yeah, I still have about 7 more customs I have to get done. I’m sorry.  😅 I’m always backed up because my life is crazy.  But can you send me a dm of what you’re looking for because if I’m in the mood I might just do it

Abe7700 Jan 2018

Hi there. Thanks for the reply, but I'm not allowed to dm you.

masp1234 Jan 2018

wow the role play is the most wonderful thing that can exist, I practice it in my videos and with my partner. I love being dominantB|:cumming::yesbaby-12:

Atomb83 Jan 2018

I like for women to be dominent.....not humiliation tho.....with right person maybe pegging I dunno tho

;) Every game has a beggining. And I love to open the doors to new worlds of pleasure.

I just started filming Role Play Videos this past year. And they are now my absolute favorite! I love Mommy and son role playing the best.

Roleplay is literally my fave thing to do in the bedroom:A

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