Today, we're in conversation with the 2017 Domme of the Year, Goddess Kristie! Let's jump right it y'all! 

How did you begin your adult industry career?

When I was 18 years old, my parents were getting a divorce. My father, who sexually abused me for years, was planning on taking me across the country. He wanted me away from friends, family, and anyone who knew me. I was so scared of what he would possibly do to me, that I finally told my best friend everything that was going on. He bought me a plane ticket and helped me move to Chicago in the middle of the night so I could get away. There, we realized I needed a job, but I had never had any real job experience. Someone suggested I look into webcamming, and there we go! I fell in love with the adult industry. It has helped me grow into who I am, shaped me, and gave me a job where I am understood and appreciated for my personality. Sex work gave me a happy ending that I never thought I would actually get.

How did your journey into fetishes and kinks begin?

Honestly, I have been a dominant bully for as far back as I can remember; I just never knew there was a name for it. I remember being on the school bus and putting makeup on this guy, and him letting me. I loved the feeling of humiliating him, and I loved laughing at him. There was another time that I wrestled a guy to the ground, sat on him, and forcibly painted his toenails. Haha. As I got older, I started exploring in the kink community in Chicago. I learned I didn’t like it so much. Being 5 feet tall and freakishly adorable, means you get a lot of creepy “doms” that don’t understand what ‘GOD NO’ means. I ended up exploring mostly online and playing with some f2m’s and other girls. From there I was able to really figure out what I loved and why! :)

Do you think being a domme requires a certain type of personality, or is this something that everyone can become?

I think you can fake being dominant. But, you are who you are. If you’re naturally submissive, you will find more peace in being with a dominant person. If you are naturally dominant, you will find more happiness being with a submissive. Trying to be someone you aren’t is exhausting and it will make you feel lesser. You will constantly compare yourself to others and feel like you’re not good enough. I suggest embracing who you are and reveling in it.

What activities outside of creating content do you enjoy?

OH GOD, this is assuming I have a life outside of camming?? I really don’t. I work for about 8-10 hours every day creating content, or banners, or planning streams, or planning Kristiemas. (My month-long Christmas celebration!) On the off chance that I do have a day to breathe, I love to go down to the Las Vegas strip and get day drunk, go home, and have insane sex. I also like to hike. Lol.

What’s your favorite fetish of all time?

This changes fairly often. I like to experiment with new fetishes all the time because don’t knock it till you try it. My favorite fetish used to be humiliation, tease, and denial, then edging, and now it is looking like I am favoring sensual domination.

What is your favorite part of being a domme?

Being the boss. Being in control. I’m a control freak and I truly love being able to guide my subs to make better decisions in their lives, as well as control them sexually. It is very gratifying to know your influence is helping someone live a healthier life.

What do you do prior to exploring new fetishes? For instance, do you do research on each new fetish?

It depends. If it is for work, then I watch a fuck ton of porn. If it is for my personal life, I do research it. I read forums discussing different ways to play with the fetish. Then I dive in head first and just have fun with it. The best ways to learn about new fetishes is to experience it yourself.

What advice would you give to women just getting into exploring fetishes?

Find someone that you trust above all others, set limits, and create a safe word. If you are trying bondage, make sure you can easily get out on your own. I have had many friends who had play partners rape them. So ALWAYS BE CAREFUL AND AWARE OF HOW TO ESCAPE YOUR SURROUNDINGS. I cannot stress that enough.

Any projects that you’re currently on right now?

YES! I am working on a huge project that I call, Kristiemas! All month long I will be celebrating Christmas with fun games, videos, exclusive content, prizes, merchandise, and charity days! I am running a huge raffle for all of December! All proceeds from the raffle will be going to an organization that gives toys to children all over the world, and also match the donation 8x! That means, if we hit my goal of giving 1,000 in total to charity, the children will receive 8 THOUSAND dollars worth of toys, and that makes me so happy.

Here are some quick 10 questions! 

On Friday nights I love to: Cam & eat cookies.

I would never let anything happen to my: Husband.

The one guilty pleasure I can’t let go of is:  My Hitachi.

Between ordering takeout and cooking, I prefer to: Order takeout. I have lit myself on fire too many times in the kitchen.

The best gift I’ve gotten in my life was: A plane ticket.

My favorite hot beverage is: Coffee!!!

I always feel good when I am with: My Husband.

The fastest and/or the easiest way to turn me on is: To send me big tips.

If I could have any mythical/magical creature as my steed, I’d pick: A werewolf.

If I’m a superhero, my arch nemesis supervillain’s name and power would be: The IRS.

Thank you very much Kristie! Everyone, go check her vids out! 

MV Team