Ah, the sex industry! A place where everyone is accepting and not at all out to hurt each other, right? Well, that's not always accurate. As we've seen lately with MV’s #WeAreMany movement and the recent tragedies with well known stars, there’s a bit of an underbelly of hate harassment and abuse. Not that this hasn't always been the case, but it seems now it's far more projected and spoken out against. So, with all the trolls out there, how do you stay a princess? You've come to the right place! Because, as the Southern girl I am, I'll instruct you how to say "fuck you" in the nicest but most savage ways you can! You gotta love that Southern hospitality! Where I come from, the phrase “bless his heart" can cut as deep as a hacksaw. 

Twitter is where I see most of this going on, so I'll base my tips for there. A troll is basically a bully behind a screen. Think about it - what has years and years of guidance counselling told us about bullies? They're looking for a reaction. So, naturally my first tip is, don't engage! Remember that you don't owe anyone an explanation, an argument, or even a reaction, so exercise that block finger! That feature is there for a reason!

Second, if you've blocked the person and they keep coming at you, inform some camgirl friends or promoters. Make a public twitter post with screen shots. Most of us don't mind going and reporting an account and spread the word everywhere to make sure others don't have the same experience. If someone keeps contacting you without your consent, that definately stands for reporting them, so don't wait for death threats or any of that. Contact your online support system. If you don't have one, feel free to contact me. I love outting abusive jerks.

Third, if you're like me and every now and then you feel you have to engage for a second just to inform someone of their stupidity every now and then, don't lose your cool.  Laugh at them or send GIFs. No one can stand when someone laughs in their face and, from my experience, usually seeing they can't get to me convinces them to ghost.  Remember though, social media should NEVER influence your emotions. If an argument starts to upset you, feel free to block at any time without warning. Queens don't have to entertain jesters and can send them back to their quarters at any time.

And last but not least, be sure to back up anything you say in response with statistics and facts. The best way to be sure you're on the right side is to also learn the opposing side and form an educated response. Anyone who comes at a smart girl who does her research is a fool bringing a knife to a gun fight.

I hope these help you guys! Be sure to keep in mind that most of these people are just jealous men and women who still live in thier moms' basements and eat squeeze cheese on hotdogs. You owe them NOTHING! So, no matter what they say, fuck trolls!

by MV Girl lovelyliv