If you don’t already know, I am Violetta and I am 18. I recently joined this community and looking around at other girls, I started wondering if my privates are anything close to normal. No, I am not talking about a private show, yes I am talking about my private parts and yours. I know I said at some point that the beauty of this industry is that there are no beauty standards. But even without the beauty standards, I started to wonder if everything is normal with me and if it affects my sales. I still don’t know if it does because I can't really change my body for a day.
What made me think that I am not normal? Everything that makes me human but that I am embarrassed about. My hairs growing on my nipples. Is that normal? Yes. The pimples or ingrown hairs I get on my nipples? I don't know but I’ll guess yes. But those things aren't the details that affect me the most. The worst is my ass, I pick at my skin a lot and doing that resulted in me having hundreds of small scars on my cheeks and it’s just never smooth as I think it should be. Is that normal? Euhm I don't know, a dermatologist might know. Also, it's those ingrown hairs and pimples I get after shaving my pubes and I used to pick at them so guess what I have down there too? Yes! Scars!
These small things have grown to bother me so much that I was surprised nobody commented on it once. I started to wonder if it was all in my head. I mean I can’t make up flaws in my head but maybe it didn’t really matter to others. Does anything purely physical really matter? I feel like when it comes to insecurities and flaws in your body it doesn't really matter. There’s always going to be a person that thinks they are fat but to another they are perfect. With me, I guess it's my privates, must be perfect for some right?
I mean what is normal? Who determines what is normal or not? Didn’t you realize that I was labeling things normal or not normal earlier? Yeah, we judge for ourselves but there is no universal normal or not normal. There Is unique. That's a great word I think uniqueness is universal because we are all unique, nobody is the same and if my scars and ingrown hairs make me unique so be it, because someone out there appreciates me for who I am and looks past that.
I still have some growing up to do, I am only 18. But a lesson I did end up learning is nobody is normal. Everyone is insecure about something. Someone admires you out there. You can change the way you see things and hopefully, this post helped you. I now rock my scars, pimples, body hair and ingrown hairs. I flaunt my uniqueness for everyone to see. I do this so others can see me and realize that they are not alone, they are not weird and they are beautiful.
I love this article. So many more need to read it. Thanks lovely 💙
Thanks! I have another blog post on here. I’ll try to write even more!
That was wonderfully written
Thank you so much!
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We are all wonderful in our own way! Smile and be confident!!! xoxo
That's the attitude we should all have!
Normal is an opinion
Yes!
Thank you for writing this. I'm sure we have all questioned whether our bits look normal at some point (it's just skin) and everyone has flaws. We just need to embrace them 💚
Exactly!
good job girl! i noticed a bit of extra flesh between my pussy & ass hole when i was about 14 or so. i asked the gyno about it, and was told it was totally normal, just extra skin. in my 15 years of exposing my nether regions to the entire world, no one has ever said anything negative about it! in fact, i've had a number of people tell me that they absolutely love it! so it's very true, the stuff that we may have major hang ups about actually don't matter at all! it's all about having confidence and loving yourself exactly the way you are: PERFECT!
Thanks for sharing!
You are a beautiful girl and what xrebbyx says is just what I was thinking. Every type of body is accepted and loved. Exitos querida I send you hugs from Colombia!
Thank you very much!
Sexwork is awesome for this reason, every body type is accepted and you are sure you'll find someone who loves yours! I have the same insecurities, my vag lips are (way) longer than average and I'm so jealous of all those pretty perfect kitties. But it seems nobody ever cared about it, like nobody ever commented on you!
Exactly! Mine are longer too and was alwa Insecure about it before I started in this industry
Same!
you're beautiful! i don't know if you want advice at all but exfoliating really helps blackheads and/or ingrown hairs! dry brushing or textured gloves work really well for me
Thanks a lot for the advice! Will definitely try it out
yes! this is also great advice
doing a little extra pampering can really help with confidence 
Try using Schick Quattro Titanium razor for men. It’s the only razor I’ll use. Leaves such a smooth shave. No bumps no nothing.
Thank you for the tip but what I need the most is something to stop blackheads and reduce scars
Yeah and never use cream. I used one to avoid the razor and it gave me a million pimples on my butt for ingrown hairs. Never doing it again
Nivea body wash with the Quattro razor for men is amazing. Now red bumps or anything. I won’t use anything but it😄
yep I was talking about depilatory cream. The pimples on my butt took months to go away. Im not doing it again anymore lol. I learned the hard way!
I used to be really sel conscious about my stretch marks. The first 4 years camming I wore high stockings to hide them EVERY SINGLE DAY. Because i was afraid of them. I also used footless stockings to be able to show my feet without showing my inner thig stretch marks. It took me 4 years to realize they aren't that bad. Nobody complained ever. It was all in my head and took me years to finally show my naked body the way it is. I love myself the way I am and my fans seem to love me just how I am. If you look at professional porn you'll find a lot of "flaws" like cellulite , stretch marks, scars and so on. But if you have the right attitude you can make it anyway!
Very true!
Really true. And even if you could change something in you just for make someone happy or be of their like, never do it unless that someone is you!
Thanks for the advice!
This is such an important piece of writing. Thank you so much for this and for sharing. You are stunning and incredibly well spoken. Everyone should read this.
Omg, thanks! I'm like lowkey fangirling rn cause I've been following you, you're an inspo to me!
😂 😂 OMG get outta here! I legit have tears in muh eyes! You are so sweet! You just made my day ♥ ♥
I love you for this. I point out so many flaws of my own, that honestly no one ever points out by ME. This industry is great, because no matter the flaw, someone out there thinks you're perfect, while others may not think so at all. That's their preference. Thank you for this article. Really gets me thinking a bit
No problem and thanks for reading!