Anal sex is reputed to be painful and some straight guys do not even dare to touch the subject. But to people's surprise, anal sex is more common than many people think. It is indeed controversial for some and desired for others.
When I started my career as a webcam model, experiencing my anus was one of the first big challenges. I had never had an anal sexual experience and had no idea how it worked. I was afraid of hurting myself, of the feces that could come out and in general fear of the unknown. Just enough to take a look at adult entertainment websites to realize that it is a practice that grows daily with more and more strength.
Discovering my ass was really simple. The first step was to leave the taboos and morals aside, then read and instruct myself about it. I learned that lubrication was the most important part to find pleasure for this part of the body. Clearly, preparation and a care are required so that everything goes well.
People are always curious about whether a woman can really enjoy anal sex and from my experience, I dare to say with all the sincerity that YES! Because anal penetration not only stimulates parts such as the prostate (in the case of men) but also nerves such as the "perineal" and "pudendal" that connect with the clit (in the case of women).
From my point of view knowing our body is essential for a healthy and delicious sexual experience. Self-exploration is the best way to find our erogenous areas, in order to get the most out of our partners. Do not worry girls, do not worry guys!
The tranquility and security will help you to find the pleasure of this sexual practice. The anal muscles and the sphincter should be relaxed. You will see that masturbation, a good lubricant, the use of condoms and certain toys with special design will help you have a better and safer experience.
I always felt like a woman open to new experiences. I am one of those who thinks that the sky is the limit. I dare say that anal sex can be very pleasant as a couple if practiced carefully, progressively, and with large doses of lubrication and respect.
I declare myself a fan of anal sex. How about you?
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Hi Peaches.. thanks for sharing! I have only tried once and wasn't a fan.. but after 10 years I think I might try with toys. cheers
Very honest text, I liked your style to write
I agree, anal can be daunting at first! The first step is definitely learning proper preparation and then practice practice practice, and yes, lots of lube!
nice write up
thanks my love, i was miss u !
I love anal! As I'm tiny, my pussy is too small for a big cock. Anal is the only way.
So wonderful and straightforward, thank you! I am working my way to enjoying it - being mindful of my bodily sensations and open to experiencing different textures etc. has been essential. I personally love some slightly numbing anal lube so I get all the nice pressure without the pain part. Oh, and of course getting paid well helps~~ lol
what is the slightly numbing anal lube you speak of? tia
I got into it by getting paid well😆
Love!
Slow but surely working our way into anal, I've taken Bar once and have trained with plugs and toys, but it's still taking some time for it to become truly enjoyable. But it's fun to work on...
I just had anal sex for the first time after a year of using plugs and stuff and now I think it feels better than vaginal sex!💖
One of the few things I have always held as a fairly large limit, along with often some random guy popping up uninvited on blogs/fetlife ect..to mansplain how ‘I must be doing it wrong’ or perhaps ‘his way’ is a new fail safe 100% enjoyment guaranteed method,
That said, in my usual way of not wanting anything sensible to be a mega hard limit, I do have a few (very few) videos using toys on myself or tail inserts, of my 1800+ videos on here, I think their is just ONE where I allow another person to use Thai beads on me, and that took a huge amount of zoning out into slave space to do!
On the other side of the spectrum, I love using anal toys when it comes to me being on the other side of the proverbial whip! In DOMME mode It is something I enjoy doing to willing submissive, my favourite being ice cube insertions, love watching the body lubricate as it melts them, and then drips of wat r release as toys are then inserted afterwards
Lube and foreplay are so essential to anal! Great article.