Cuckolding, in the technical sense refers to when a wife sleeps with men other than her husband. However, for many, this is an actual fetish. For example, a couple may arrange a sexual encounter with another man, and the husband will watch while his wife has sex with another woman. It is this alternating sensation of suffering and pleasure as the husband feels conflicting feelings inside him. 

Having said that, how does this work in the video making setting? What are some finer points and details of cuckolding? So far, we're only looking at the tip of the iceberg here. 

We got Goddess Juls to answer all our curiosities.

What is cuckolding?

What does it mean being a cuckold? The typical definition is seeing your wife/girlfriend being pleased by another man with a bigger penis than yours. It’s not a threesome. It’s not swinging. It’s being left out while she is getting all the pleasure from a better man than you. You are being denied. Its like “Mental Edging” or “Psychological Sadomasochism”. I call it a mental edging because when you edge your penis, you don’t allow yourself to come. The whole edging process gives you so much pleasure that you don’t want it to end. So that's why cuckolding is mental edging. Instead of your penis, you are edging your mind.

A cuckold has no physical contact with his woman, and he is not allowed to participate. Sometimes he is not even allowed to be present in the same room with his wife.  He is edging himself inside his head. Jealousy mixed with a huge arousal seeing your woman climax on another man’s penis. It’s a constant war between bad feelings and then good feelings. Sexual pleasure is being replaced with humiliation and mental pain.

How did you get into cuckolding?

When I first heard about cuckolding I was a little surprised by such fetish. As I slowly learned more about it, I became completely captivated by the whole idea. I started buying books about cuckolding, hot-wifing (another term for cuckolding), reading about the history of this fetish and of course, practicing cuckoldry in my personal life. I guess it explains why I have so many cuckolding videos in my clips store.

I consider myself a domme cuckoldress. I enjoy having power and gaining control over a submissive man. Since my teenage years, I was always a cock tease by nature. I liked attention from multiple guys, teasing them, flirting with them but not necessarily giving them what they wanted. Now as I got older and wiser (haha), I love the idea of taking control away from a man and turning him into whatever makes me happy. I became more selfish and demanding. Which are the qualities you must have if you are a cuckoldress. I enjoy having a cuckold slave who is on my speed dial at all times. I use him in my videos and continue training him to be the best cuckold he can be.

Why is cuckolding becoming popular now?

In my personal opinion, cuckolding is a growing niche due to women gaining more power in today’s society. Economically, politically and socially women are gaining their power. They are independent, confident and know what they want in life. Men always have been more attracted to a confident woman. It’s a big turn on to them. She doesn’t have to be a Top Model, but it's her confidence that makes her the sexiest woman on Earth. They want to please her, they want her to feel good. Women have liberated their sexuality. It uncovers men’s submissive side and somewhat men’s bisexual curiosity.  Sometimes cuckolding helps men to come out with their bisexual impulses. A lot of men are turning to cuckolding because it gives them an outlet to experiment their bisexuality. It’s like win and win situation for a couple. She gets to have sex with a guy who has much bigger cock than her husband, and he gets to satisfy his bisexual cravings.

What are some variations of cuckolding?

Cuckolding has lots of sub-niches. For eg. foot cuckolding, humiliation, financial cuckoldry, bisexual encouragement, BBC cuckolding, chastity and of course clean-up cuckold which adds more coerced gay element. All these sub-categories could be linked together to create true cuckolding bliss.

It seems like cuckolding isn’t for everyone. What goes on in the mind of someone who enjoys being a cuckold?

Cuckolding has been around for centuries. Back in 1900’s if a woman cheats on her husband, a husband would be called a “cuckold”. The whole village would humiliate him and put “antlers” on his head. Cuckold fetish is not for the weak-minded. It’s actually very intelligent. Some people call it the “Intellectual’s Fetish”. Some men have a lot of control in their work lives. So when it’s time for a sexual release, they are looking for a woman to take charge. Most of my cuckolding slaves have important jobs, good education and they are financially successful. Imagine how much mental control you need to have in order to let your hot wife to go out and meet another guy so she could fuck him. That's why cuckolding is very intellectual because other guys would be crippled by jealousy.

Take a moment and imagine, if you are watching your beloved girlfriend kissing another man, moaning and having multiple orgasms, you start to think: “Oh, I haven’t seen my girlfriend being that turned on in a long time. Does she like his dick more than mine?” YES, YES She Does!  That’s where your first jealous feeling takes place. Then a few minutes later your thoughts start to calm down and you are thinking: “I am so lucky to watch her being pleased by his big cock. I hope he makes her feel better than I can, I hope he gives her more orgasms”. That’s where your mental sadomasochism comes in. Finally, you are seeing your wife’s pussy is completely filled up by this stud’s semen and you think: “This is the hottest thing I’ve ever seen”. And that's where your sexual release comes in.

How would you feel inside? Angry? Jealous? Intense? And then suddenly complete sexual arousal.  After doing a little research of my own, cucks admitted to me that they almost felt dizzy, nauseous the first time they saw another man inside his girl. It's so overwhelming, painfully erotic. It becomes a sexual release to a cuck. It all comes down to pure trust between the couple. Agreeing to cuckolding has to be a mutual decision and completely transparent.

Some people might argue with me and say that cuckolding is for the weak, it's gay and they are completely delirious for letting their wives to cheat on them. It's infidelity. It’s shameful. But it’s not cheating when it’s a mutual decision to spice up their relationships.  

What draws people into cuckold vids?

In my clip store, I do a lot of domme/cuckold training which adds more humiliation factor, and bisexual encouragement. I also enjoy making wife-husband roleplaying clips. I try to make it as real as possible. Some of my fans don’t have a woman in their life to experience cuckoldry with, so my videos become a great outlet for them to experience this. Some men have crappy marriages and they haven’t slept with their wives in years. They never share any sexual details with each other. So that makes them turn to cuckolding porn to fill that empty hole. I try to make it as real as possible to show my cuckold fans the power of this fetish.

Thank you very much Goddess Juls! What are your thoughts about this fetish? Let us know in the comments below!

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