I was 26 when I had my daughter. In my weird sexual way, it was exciting when my husband first called me a MILF. I mean, he still thinks I'm hot! Then the analytical side of me decided to do that thing we all say never to do: Google it. There it was. The dictionary definition of MILF: "A sexually attractive older woman"; "A sexually attractive middle-aged woman"; "A sexually attractive mother".
At first, I was upset. How could anyone put me in the category of being "older" or even "middle-aged"?! I was young, hot and still developing my sexual prowess. In my experience, being a middle-aged mother meant outdated hairstyles, poor clothing choices and a distinct lack of sexuality. I should note that I grew up in a very conservative part of the "Bible Belt." I did NOT want to be categorized alongside the women I knew who were middle-aged or mothers. I mean no offense here, to each their own. But the stereotype has never been my style.
Thankfully, I didn't have to worry long. The internet can actually be helpful if you have an open mind. In 2016 my husband recommended we try "camming." At first I thought he had lost his mind. Then he showed me what he was talking about, and how much fun it could be. So we gave it a shot. Immediately, we were both hooked. I was now part of a world where being a MILF was a fantastic thing! Where mothers of all ages, shapes, and sizes could express themselves and be the naturally sexy beasts we were meant to be.
Finally, I felt like I had found my people. I started looking past the stereotypes of my childhood and entered a community where I was accepted. Where I didn't have to hide my scars, because people looked past them. A community where people were interested in, not only my sexuality and naughtiness, but my life. Several people I met through camming have become friends who ask about my day, my daughter and my husband. Our followers are people who understand life, parenthood and all the ups and downs that come along with it.
Through camming and the various avenues that it has led to—including ManyVids—I've learned that being a MILF is a powerful thing that can make you feel like the sexiest person alive. I am a badass. I juggle work, family, and all the sticky and smelly things that accompany parenthood. Then, in the next breath, I put on those shorts that show a little too much and have my husband begging to fuck me.
At a time when women are breaking stereotypes at record speed, why not break the stereotypes that hold us back from being powerful, sexual women that rock the world?