Get Your GF to Watch Porn

How do you get her to enjoy herself as much as you do?

May 4 2018 14 comments 1,783

All women love watching porn—or at least most men wish that they did. Unfortunately, the sad, hard (or soft) truth of the matter is that although plenty of women enjoy watching porn, not all do. Many feel repulsed or disgusted by the very concept of adult entertainment. They may think porn does nothing but degrade women and that you are a pervert for watching such filth.

How, then, are you to know how your girl feels without upsetting her or putting yourself in the line of fire? How can you change her mind if she does feel negatively about porn? What if she is unsure about it? How do you get her to enjoy herself as much as you do?

First things first: Find out how she feels about porn in general. If you have no clue how your girlfriend feels, then tread lightly. Some women have been raised with conservative religious or personal moral beliefs about sex and will already be predisposed to hate the entire adult entertainment industry. Note: Just because she has given no outward signs of being interested in porn does not mean she is still not open to the idea. If you are not comfortable simply asking your girlfriend, then there are other ways to find out how she feels.

Try watching a real movie with sex scenes in it. This does not mean a porno with an attempt at a plot line but, rather, a real full-length Hollywood production with some sex. Think along the lines of Troy with Brad Pitt or even something simple like 50 Shades of Grey. A movie with a sexy man for her to watch caters to her tastes instead of your own and gives her an excuse to stare. Gauge her reaction during the sex scene. Does she watch attentively or find other things to keep her attention? Does she joke around nervously or go into a tirade of slurs against the slutty actress on screen?

Deciphering how she feels is essential in knowing what to do next. Let’s face it, some women will never be turned on by porn. They can be emotional beings and may not get off by visual stimulation. Even if they are open to the idea and don’t mind if you watch, they will never enjoy it themselves. If your girlfriend makes it clear that she is completely adamant about not watching sex, discover why. Be careful; do not come on too strongly or try to pursue the subject when she clearly does not want to talk about it. She may have already tried watching in the past before and never enjoyed it. She may have preconceived notions about porn and be repulsed by what she perceives porn to be. Discovering the root cause of her disgust is vital to educating her and opening her mind to new possibilities. Just be sure not to prod her for information too strongly, and if she clearly does not want to talk about it, then stop. Wait until another time when she is in a better mood. If you push things she may forever be closed off to the idea. Finding an appropriate time to discuss this type of thing is key.

After you have ascertained her thoughts on porn, now comes the time for you to do some homework. Come up with a logical, well-thought-out argument explaining why porn is not the bad, evil thing she may think that it is. If your girlfriend believes porn is immoral, provide evidence to the contrary. Jesus was friends with an actual prostitute and never once tried to change her. Adam and Eve only put on clothing once they had found sin. Generally, the base of every religion is very accepting and open minded regarding sexuality—it is people that misconstrue this. If your girl thinks porn degrades women, show her women that find their work empowering, or videos where the woman clearly actually enjoys what she is doing. This does not mean movies with a corny script and fake pleasure but those with organic enjoyment and lines like, “Oh, I wish I had this for my birthday every year.” Whatever you are going to show her, (anal, bondage, etc.) make sure it doesn’t look acted out and is realistic (I.E. lubrication, no blood, etc.) and take baby steps. I’m not saying that you can’t eventually work up to these type of videos, but to start slow. Find out what she is into and cater to her tastes.

Be prepared for what your girl may be into. Just because you like big ass anal videos does not mean she will. She may enjoy gay porn, and I’m not talking about lesbians. You may have to broaden your own horizons and watch things you never dreamed of before. Watching porn together has the potential to bring the two of you together in a fun new way and you may see a completely different side of your girl.

However, it may not work out in the end due to differences between the two of you. Don’t let it get you down. Just because you can’t agree on what to watch doesn’t mean you can’t still have a healthy sexual relationship. If your girl just flat-out doesn’t like porn, then you can continue to watch on your own. Porn isn’t everything. A healthy relationship isn’t worth ruining over something so small. If it means that much to you, think it over before you do anything serious.

Watching porn together could potentially amplify your sex life. You may both try new things you never would have thought of before the experience. It could bring you together in a whole new way and make things a lot more fun in the sack. As long as you both go into things with an open mind, the experience can be fun for both of you. Who knows, the whole thing could be an easy topic to breach and one that could positively affect your sex life for the rest of your relationship. You never know if you don’t try. So do your research, be prepared and have fun.

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saschatiga May 2018

Meine exfreundin hat mal auf meinem pc die fotos und viedeos von mir und ihrer vorgängerin gefunden. 
Sie wurde dadurch sowas von geil daß Ich sie direkt ficken sollte..

Great article kitty kat!

DEN4IK88 May 2018

You are beautiful as the goddess Aphrodite and a million times sexier than her brosto sex goddess

Great article!

Leighanxa
Leighanxa deleted May 2018

I love watching together. Good article

Selina Kyl May 2018

it's amazing when couples are able to watch porn together! I know some couples watch mine which is so flattering! <3

Watching porn with your significant other is such an erotic experience.

DorisDawn May 2018

I was about your age when I got married. Still a virgin with no idea about porn. It was verboten in the Ostblock, at least officially. Still, my groom used to adorn posters with naked ladies on the walls in his basement. Never tried to hide from me, even when organizing video nights - vintage VHS porn included. Well, back in the '80s it was modern, not vintage. 
This intrigued me, made me curious. Few years later, we shot our first sex tape together, moving a big camera from his hands to mine and back, while at it. 
My take is that if the gal is open minded, curious to learn, and the guy is loving, romantic and outspoken, then they won't stop at only watching porn. 
Great article, thanks for the read!!
:x

MrJojo23 May 2018

My girlfriend would get mad when she found out I watched porn until last year. She wanted to start trying new things and one of them was watch porn together. It was akward at first but then we enjoyed it and we do it every one in awhile.

misskittypurr
misskittypurr deleted May 2018

Love watching porn myself I had a hard time getting my bf to watch it with me. Man I'm like let's do this. A lot of girls get upset when they catch there man watching porn I'm like next time call me in. I'll join..😉😘💋

Arikajira May 2018

I suggest ‘Body of Evidence’ as a film to watch, it was what turned my mind over to enjoying porn

Aspen Snow May 2018

😍I love interacting with couple customers and living out their fantasies😍

Great article! Thank you!

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