Sweetbabyvixxi writes about her journey into becoming a Sugar Baby and online content creator and offers her insights and wisdom about the lifestyle:

"Victoria" first came strutting into my life in the autumn season of 2015–leaves were dancing and falling into place, the breeze was cool and crispy, and my heart was shattered and broken into pieces. She unapologetically took center stage and come to think of it, seems like she stepped in right after my 5-year relationship finally went to shit. I remember introducing her to friends as a temporary excuse for my sass and oversharing nature, but she slowly turned into my alternative ego, carrying me with confidence through my bouts of low self-esteem and moments of doubt and weakness.

I’m proud to say that she’s a permanent and interchangeable part of me now. I owe a lot of my strength to her, and I'm so happy I've let her take hold of my life when there were times I wanted to give up. She has led me down several roads I never would have dared, and I’m grateful for her enlightening me in so much there is to experience in this world! Wouldn’t you agree life is much more exhilarating when you say yes, and open doors you’re too afraid to enter?

Now that I’ve introduced you to my alt ego Victoria, Vixxi for short, it’s needless to say that I didn’t wake up one day and decide to be spoiled by an older man... twice my age and get paid for it! Actually, back then, the thought that I could get paid by doing just about anything never crossed my mind. I rejected many things before Vixxi–telling myself "I'll never be the type to date an older man... swallow cum... public sex ... or spend my hard earned money on materialistic things". I was a sheltered and naive little thing.

But Vixxi was enlightened by the idea that I could benefit financially and it actually stemmed from a cuddle buddy I had at the time. I was already posing nude for professional painters for the sake of art (and a little extra income), I always had annoyingly chubby cheeks, a whiney little voice, and was an inherently a good listener, so in hindsight, I can see why my friend planted that idea for me. But to spell it out long story short: we love free food, stimulating conversation, and money, so at the start of 2017 I dedicated my free time to being a Sugar Baby, and to my Daddy(s) I would introduce myself as Victoria. The experience turned out to be nothing short of amazing! Albeit we had both good and bad experiences (as is the case in anything we decide to pursue in life), I still consider it a more positive chapter than a bad one.

When you start a lifestyle that you know absolutely nothing about though, you can be sure you’re likely to run into some dead ends pretty quickly. I won’t go into detail about the bad experiences I had but hope the little bits of advice that I’ll share and warnings for those intrigued will help you narrow your path. Entertaining, mature men can be a lot of fun, you can learn a lot about real life, savings, stocks and other wisdom they can offer other than dinner. In other words, if you play your cards right, you have a lot more to gain than you might have thought you would! Honestly, the thing I miss most about being a sugar baby is getting dressed up and pampered! Agreeing to meet with an older gentleman means you can look forward to being appreciated for even the smallest detail: being punctual, the way you did your hair, the way you carry yourself, the way you talk. I never got that kind of adored attention from men my age, andI’m a sharer, so it was natural for me to flirt and enjoy their advances. So here is a short list of tips.

Tip #1: Be safe: Always meet in a public place first:

Restaurants, bars, and Starbucks are my favorite places to get a chance to talk and get a feel for "new friends." They are compensating you for your time and company, so it’s best, to be honest in what you expect and looking for so give them that information in the light of day!

Tip #2: Be considerate:

Before you meet–try to get an understanding of what Daddy is looking for and communicate what it is you need out of the arrangement.

Keep in mind that some part-time Sugar Babies can average about $1k/month allowance. Some can obviously find a more generous Daddy than others, and some can see an arrangement more stable and long-term! Some Daddies can afford more than an allowance such as trips to exotic countries, paying for your school tuition and even rent and bills! So, I would treat every Daddy with respect while understanding what the dynamic of our relationship was, never pushy and never ungrateful.

This next tip is just a lesson I had to learn the hard way, but it will depend on the level of kinkiness your Daddy is into... so he might actually like it!

Tip #3: Be aware: Do not discuss current/ other relationships with your Daddy

Daddies want to feel special–you might hit his male ego or jealous bone and ruin a good thing between the two of you if you bring up the coworker you have a crush on or the fact you’re still currently fucking your ex. On the other hand, though, he might be into that! I had a couple of kinky Daddies who loved to be cucks (cuckolded) and loved to know who else I was sharing my pussy with. Personally, I get a kick out of it, though it was hot sharing stories to them as a kind of foreplay.

I aforementioned that I was not going to go into detail about my bad experiences, but I will in a later post describe some of the good experiences I had. Like I said, had I done my research and followed these 3 tips maybe I would have known how to have handled the situations I went through more gracefully. But you live, and you learn! After I met my current boyfriend, I decided to leave the Sugar world, by merely deleting my accounts from Sugar Baby sites and cutting my Daddies off from my personal phone and blocking them on social media. Even though I was a Sugar Baby for only a year, I don’t regret a moment of it. Not only were they my mentors, lovers, and friends giving me valuable and meaningful conversation, but I learned a lot about myself that I wouldn’t have without Victoria edging me to it.

Camming and making vids, which is also new to me, has been amazing in itself! The routes here are endless and a lot more flexible! It’s exciting to think of the many scenarios for a vid and bringing it to life in front of a camera! I hope all of your sexual journeys have been just as enjoyable and successful as mine. May we all grow and love our lifestyles in whichever way we choose to, but always remember to play it safe and play it smart!

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