What exactly is chastity?

Chastity is about not being able to masturbate or orgasm. If a man is locked in a chastity device he cannot become fully erect. If he is able to, then a smaller chastity cage must be used. If a man is practicing mental chastity (where there isn’t a chastity device on him) he can become erect but is not allowed to jerk off. Mental chastity focuses on a submissive’s power of restraint and is ideal when a man isn’t able to wear one. Perhaps he’s in a relationship or has a fear of being in a device.

How did you discover this fetish? How did you begin practicing it?

I don’t remember when I learned about chastity but if I had to guess it was probably about six years ago. I’ve known about it for a while. I found someone who was interested in chastity and had never tried it. I was excited to find my first victim and read all I could about chastity. We finally agreed on a cage and I locked him. It was such a powerful and delightful moment.

What are some precautions that people should have for this fetish? 

It is extremely important to keep the cage and penis clean to prevent a possible infection. Make sure the ring isn’t too loose or it may cause chafing. Make sure the device isn’t too tight or it can cut off circulation. It’s best to invest in a custom chastity device if you’re interested in long-term chastity. Some people believe that long-term chastity shrinks the penis and makes it more difficult to get hard. However, I’ve met men who can still perform after years in chastity. It is also possible to use stretching exercises to make the penis grow if it does shrink. If you have any fears or questions I suggest discussing them with a urologist. 

Why do you think people are into this fetish?

Some men enjoy this fetish because they enjoy tease and denial. Some think it’s the ultimate form of submission. Some men believe that they aren’t man enough so they don’t deserve to have sex, get erect, or orgasm. Men who believe that they aren’t man enough are frequently interested in being cuckolded as well.

What goes into a great chastity vid?

I made a clip series (three so far) called "Twisted JOI" which is incredible. Each one consists of a challenge and if a man cannot complete the challenge because it’s so disturbing then he must stay in or begin chastity. I also enjoy making tease and denial clips where a man is already locked. 

What do you enjoy most about practicing this fetish with your subs?

My favorite part about practicing this fetish is how powerful it makes me feel. There’s something so erotic about a man sacrificing his orgasms because I want him to. Some of my subs in chastity do it because they enjoy chastity, while others only do it because they know that I love it. I prefer when a submissive isn’t interested in chastity but willing to do it for me. That’s true sacrifice and servitude.

Say something to your fans!

I am always looking for more men to lock up and control. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been in chastity before or never tried it. All that matters is that you are willing and dedicated to trying it. Contact me if you’re ready to sacrifice for me!

LadyValencia