MV Fetish: Sissification

GoddessNixon explains this kink!

Apr 19 2019 10 comments 3,383

GoddessNixon takes us through the sissification kink!

What is the sissification fetish?

Sissification is the process by which a sub is emasculated. Through physical changes (ex: shaving all body hair, wearing makeup, getting a mani/pedi) and behavioral training (how to walk, talk, and act more girly, and/or slutty), subs embody a hyper-feminine version of themselves. Like all BDSM practices, the intensity of the sissification process depends on the limits and boundaries of the sub.

In my experiences as a Domme, I’ve had sissification clients whose desires range from simply sleeping in a pair of lace panties for one night to adopting a sissy identity on Grindr and wearing ultra-feminine lingerie during their hookups. Sissification is an interesting fetish in that it relies on our traditional expectations of masculinity/femininity while at the same time subverting them. Getting off on subverting gender roles? Very hot.

How did you discover and get into this kink?

It started as a curiosity. I’ve always been insatiably curious when it comes to the taboo side of sex, and I’ve had partners who have graciously educated me in their fantasies. That has informed my Domme work. I like to listen, ask questions, and really engage with subs to learn more about what gets them off. I get into sissification more and more with every new client and custom vid order.

Is this something you'd do in your personal sex life or is it more for the cameras? Do you find it personally sexually satisfying?

Some of the costuming can be very, very hot to me! I absolutely have a hosiery fetish, and I used to think that only applied to me wearing hosiery myself. I’ve discovered that I’m actually quite turned on by otherwise “manly” men wearing fishnets, thigh-highs, heels, lace, etc.

Some of the more extreme sissification tasks I assign, though, are purely for my entertainment. I’m not sexually involved, but I am laughing very hard. The good thing is that my sissies live for that humiliation.

Do you have a memory, event, or vid, related to this fetish that really stands out in your mind?

This past fall a sub of mine sent a very heartfelt message thanking me for helping him explore his sexuality and gender expression in a safe and caring environment. Before being my sub, he had never done a lot of things, he had never worn heels or sucked a dick. Now he knows that he is happier in his day-to-day life being able to do both of those things (at the same time!) without fear of judgment.

Of course, I’m a hard bitch when I need to be, but being a Domme is about more than just rolling your eyes and flipping off the camera. I’m happy that I was able to make an impact and help him feel more comfortable with his sissy side.

Image titleWhy do you think people are into this fetish?

Every sissy is different, but I think in general there is still such a strong societal taboo with men expressing any “feminine” qualities that finally being given permission to do so can be exhilarating. When someone has been told their entire life that a certain thing is wrong and they finally decide they can do it, that rush of exploring the forbidden is unparalleled.

What goes into a great sissification vid?

Creativity! Sissification task vids are doomed to have similar themes, it’s true. Dommes aren’t reinventing the wheel when we tell someone to go panty shopping, but delivering a unique spin whether through your script or editing is the way to build your sissy audience. Personally, I take the preparation for a clip very seriously. I’m a writer, and I take the time to do quite a bit of brainstorming and pre-writing before actually sitting down to craft a script for a new clip. I think that the level of care put into the script makes my clips unique.

What would you like the general public to know about this fetish?

Although some of the language and tasks may seem derogatory to an outsider, sissification play that takes place between consenting adults is no more harmful than regular old-fashioned missionary sex. You can dabble in sissification without making it a lifetime commitment, too! Have your partner wear some lace panties while you’re out at dinner, or give him a makeover. You never know, it could add an exciting new dimension to your sex life!

Say something to your fans!

Follow me to make sure you see when I release new fetish vids! I have so many new sissy tasks planned for upcoming filming, and I can’t wait for you to see! I’m so grateful for the ManyVids fetish community–I’m new to selling my content on here, but the response has already been amazing.

GoddessNixon

Are you into this kink? Have you tried it out? Share your experiences and your reflections in the comments below:

I love fetish in general. I have many myself but for the most part, this isn't one of em. If I'm going to be dominated or humiliated, I'd like to put in my place as a man (or wimp) although, there are some aspects of the fetish that are appealing. To each their own and live and let live. I think it's great to get your kink on and this included. However at times it seems, if ordering a custom, because this fetish appears so popular,  models tend to "lean" towards this type of fetish-like film direction & for me at least, it's disappointing. Last word: Think Kink, baby & let your freak flag fly!

Btw, this dominatrix is gorgeous woo hoo

My ex became sissified while we were together and recently came out as Trans. I'm happy I was the one to help her along her journey to becoming her true self. She went from a Desmond to a Brianna.

MissMetal Apr 2019

This sounds addictive :A Thank you!

Do what you want, but you should know that "sissy" is a slur to the trans and gay communities. Its in bad taste for a cis woman to use the slur in private, much worse in a public forum, and even more reprehensible when they are making money off of it. A TON of trans women find the word very offensive, and its a shame when the cis models who are aware of that, keep on doing it anyway. While I understand that sissification play can be very therapeutic, and it helps men explore gender roles in a safe space, its a kink that only gay and trans dominants can practice respectfully. For us, its a slur we can reclaim. When cis people use the word, its inherently disrespectful. I know a lot of people have no idea how hurtful this behavior can be, so I try not to assume any ill intent.

this ^

RocksyDaizy Apr 2019

I love the way that you candidly answer all of these questions.  It makes the article both informative and real.  You clearly enjoy what you do, as we all should<3

Selina Kyl Apr 2019

I get a lot of sissification cam shows which I find pretty fun! I love encouraging men to get in touch with their feminine side as so many men are afraid to!

Darya Jane Apr 2019

Great interview, thanks for the education I love getting more insight into fetishes:x

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