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This week our expert is SolaraVoltara, take it away, Solara:

I’m a woman who has had sex once, and I feel like I’m not good at it, how do I get better at sex without experience or someone to practice with?

- QuietLoud

There's no replacement for real experience, but there is hope. As a woman, I have been there. My best advice would be to have some discreet sexual encounters with multiple guys. But the alternative here is good too. When I first started having sex, I bought a dildo with a suction cup. I practiced doing things I saw other girls do in porn, such as fellatio, and also you can practice doing things with your vagina like squeezing the dildo with your pelvic muscles.

Don't be afraid to get freaky and sit on his face and say dirty things. Guys love that stuff. When giving head don't forget about the balls, bob that head, use your tongue, and don't let your teeth touch the cock, it's very painful. Kiss lick and stroke that cock. When you find yourself on your back with your ankles on his shoulders you can stroke your clit, play with your breasts, and even grab his hips and pull him into you, say "harder, umm yes!"

Look into his eyes. When in doggy there is not a lot of things you can do except for push back on him while he is fucking you. Guys love that. One of your most important tools is cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. Never be afraid to improvise, and if you plan to do anal make sure that you clean yourself out well so there will not be any accidents, and use plenty of oil or lube. Use BC unless you and the guy have agreed to have a baby. Most of all, have fun, improvise, and don't be nervous. Sex is not dirty, inhibitions are worthless.

I have a major crush with my best friend’s ex, and she definitely seems interested in me, should I go for it or not? And if I do what should I say to my best friend

- xxxJay

Check with your buddy first. If he still has feelings for her, it could ruin your friendship if you just go get with her. Friends are worth a lot more than blowing your load in some chick. Trust me, I fucked one of my friend's ex-girlfriend once, and he didn't appreciate it. Told me that I should have told him first. Turns out that years later he still had feelings for her.

I’m not a “chaser,” or look at trans women as a kink, but I have a major crush on a trans girl I go to college with and we’ve gone on some dates and made out, but so far that’s it. But I’m just completely lost when it comes to sex, should I talk to her about my nervousness? Or should I research how to please a trans girl and not bring up my fears?

-HC

She is a woman, treat her like a woman, in bed and out of bed. Sex will be no different than with any other chick, maybe even better. Don't be afraid to lube her up and put a cock in her. Think of the lady cock as a big clit that is basically what it really is. Watch some TS porn that is more in line with str8 porn. That will give you some ideas. You can tell her that you have never done this before but don't use the word nervous, that word is a turn-off.

Feel her up, and lick and kiss her all over. Eat that ass like you are eating pussy and stroke her clit, then grab her legs and put them on your shoulders, put some oil on your cock and inside her, then slowly slide inside her. Pound her out while you hold her by her pelvis, stroke her clit, and play with her breasts. She will love it! If you do suck her make sure you don't scrape your teeth. It hurts. Just have fun, be spontaneous.

SolaraVoltara

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