What is the sensual domination fetish? How is it different from other forms of domming?

What is the most sexual organ in our bodies? The brain–and keeping that in mind, you have a general idea of what Sensual Domination is about. First of all, Sensual Domination doesn't fit entirely into the BDSM/domming world. It's much more of a sensual and erotic experience. It scratches the surface of both vanilla and  BDSM sex, yet it's so much more!

Sensual Domination is all about the simple power of the mind and body... more pleasure, mental captivation, and rewards, and not so much physical restraint or punishment. It celebrates pleasure over pain. A Sensual Dom will pay attention to what you have to say, they will want to know all about you and what you think about a wide range of topics. They won't dominate the conversation at first, because they are listening–and also because anticipation and surprise are a big part of their sensual magic tricks!

Don't fool yourself thinking they are "soft" Doms though. It's all about control, you just probably won't notice it. Sensual Doms are still in control, they will tell you what to wear, what to eat, how to take care of yourself, and every single aspect about your sexual relationship: the when, where, and how, of having sex, IF you are both having sex, for how long, and last but not the least, when you climax and IF you climax. There might be an occasional spank, either because the sub misbehaved or just because the Dom wants it, any pain inflicted is only MILD and solely to complement pleasure, not to push the sub's limits. Pain is not the main focus of it, it's doubtful you'll get hurt during a Sensual Domination Session. Imagine a role where the dominant is benevolent and loving, and the submissive is devoted.

Sensual Doms will also find out what triggers you, and play a very pleasurable game with you, and the Dom will get aroused by that as well, don't you doubt it! They will focus on sensations, they will whisper "sweet dirty nothings," they will touch, tease and linger, they will build you up to the right perfect moment of release and provide you so much pleasure. Oh, so much pleasure...

As tools of pleasure, you can use several kinky, such as: ice cubes, blindfolds, handcuffs, ropes, oil, candles, feathers, fur, and, of course, lingerie and/or costumes for visual stimulation!

Sensual Domination is mainly based on trust, pleasure, and reward. A Sensual Dom will praise and nurture you. This is part of the pleasure, part of the trigger and part of the reason why it will give both the Dom and sub the freedom to experience this fetish to its fullest.

How did you discover and get into this kink?

Although I consider myself a Switch. I have been practicing Sensual Domination all my life without knowing it! The act itself just came naturally to me, and it never felt like domming, but either taking control of the situation... I just didn't have a name for it–until a few years ago when I got more into the online world of kinks and fetishes and discovered it through research!

Is this something you'd do in your personal sex life, or is it more for the cameras? Do you find it personally sexually satisfying?

I do use Sensual Domination in my personal sex life AND for the cameras! As I said before, it just comes naturally to me. I was always a quiet person (and curious) which allows me to always contemplate my surroundings, listen to what other people say. and how they say it, what they do and the reasons why they do it, and I just find it all fascinating. All people are a marvel to discover, and if you listen carefully, you will always find delightful layers in them that form the big picture! So sometimes, naturally and without even processing it in my mind, I will make a comment or a question, that will serve as a trigger, and when people lock their eyes on me at that moment: it just turns me on... yes, even during a normal conversation.

Either in the bedroom or on camera or in a custom vid, I find it the best satisfaction I can get. I get pleasure by association, so giving joy to others plays a significant role in my own pleasure. And I love the erotic game. From the thrill of the expectation to the very moment of release–from building up to an exploding climax that will make you scream and moan while curling your toes. I love it all.

Do you have a memory, event, or vid, related to this fetish that really stands out in your mind?

Most memories as pleasurable as that aren't meant to the "public ear" ;)... BUT... My favorite vid would beStroke for Bad Bunnyas it merges Sensual Domination, JOI, and cock worship–eroticism, control and praise, the fundamental keys to Sensual Domination! Besides, I think I really look sexy with bunny ears, who wouldn't want to follow my instructions when I'm looking THAT cute?

What goes into a great Sensual Domination vid?

As the name says: being sensual! Being gentle while being confident and taking control. If you are an MV Star: be present in the moment with your viewers! Tell your viewers what to do, and then show them how much you enjoy them for doing it for you! They will love it, and so will you, it's addictive!

Why do you think both Doms and subs are into this kink?

Because it provides them release. Release of reality, their daily lives. Much like other forms of Domination, yes, but also sometimes Sensual Domination is a release of a more extreme form of Domination, as a break. I also think another important factor is the fact that it involves a much more developed relationship between Dom and sub. The bond between them is a much more erotic one, almost romantic! Therefore it is challenging to break that bond!

Are there any safety precautions people should know for this fetish?

Although there isn't almost any pain involved in this kink, it's still a form of control and Domination... so I definitely recommend the use of a safe word anyway!

Personally, I recommend the traffic lights system with the words green/yellow/red to let the partner know about your boundaries. Always make sure the submissive is always in a safe zone and not out of their comfort zone! Communication is key, and respect goes a long way!

Also, again this is not an intense form of Domination, but it does take a bit out of you, mentally and physically, so please take some time afterward to rest, cuddle, and drink some water! In fact, always drink water, stay hydrated!

What would you like the general public to know about this fetish?

I think Sensual Domination is perfect to build up your sexual life and the trust on your partner, especially if you come of an abusive relationship from the past, but also if you come from a vanilla background and want to spice up the relationship bit by bit. As mentioned before, it's also a great release as a break between more extreme forms of BDSM.

In this form of Domination, accordingly, to the relationship you have with your Dom, you can even switch roles from one session to another, take turns, learn from one another and have fun!

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