Earlier this month, we celebrated the sexy dommes of ManyVids. And we know that people are still recovering from that awesome promo vid. This time, we're going a little more in-depth. We wanted to explore what it means to have a dom/sub relationship. What exactly goes on between a domme and a slave?
We know very well that a dom/sub relationship isn't just about the physical aspect of spanking, whipping, stepping on, and more. There are a lot of other more complicated dynamics involved. A good dominatrix knows how to manipulate her slave mentally and emotionally, and that is not a simple easy thing to do. Among all the things that make a great dom/sub relationship, it takes skill, it takes time, and most of all, it takes active participation from both sides.
Starting with what's the most important part of a dom/sub relationship, this one was pretty obvious. Trust:
"You have to trust your sub and your sub must trust you. I am a domme that enjoys long-term ownership and TPE (total power exchange) to establish trust is obviously important. Chemistry is important as well. I personally become good friends with my subs in a vanilla way but they know their place and what an honor it is for them to be part of my life. For me, when a sub GIVES over his power and trusts me with his life? THAT is ultimate submission." - Mistress Jade
So how does a dom establish trust with a sub? Magnificent Mistress has her ways with subs to ensure that her relationship with them is based on trust.
"Trust is established between slave and Mistress over a period of time. The best Domme relationships are developed over the course of multiple interactions. First, there must be a willingness between the parties. The Domme must be willing and capable of dominating and controlling. The sub/beta must also be willing and able to submit and be controlled. The parties should also have a good idea of what they want out of the relationship. If this isn't clearly defined then all parties will be disappointed and trust will not have a chance to be established. Over time if these things are accomplished, a symbiotic and trusting relationship will blossom naturally." - Magnificent Mistress
Okay, so once trust is there, it's time to begin some domination. But obviously, it's going to be difficult for a new slave to be adjusted to the mistress's ways. But this isn't a problem for Miss_MoonMoon.
"I try to show them who's boss right off the bat. If that means making them do humiliating tasks, things out of their comfort zone, all just to see me being sexy, then I know I've won. I want them to beg to do any kind of task for me, and to do that I always try to tease them as much as possible (sexy non-nude pics, censored nude pics, etc.)." - Miss_MoonMoon
And good behavior will earn the slave rewards from the mistress. However, that's not always the case. A lot of times, a slave needs some good punishment from the domme, like BrattyPrincessAnna's favorite way of punishing a slave.
"I'd have to say forcing them to edge over and over, promising an orgasm if they do well enough but never giving it to them. There's something super hot about punishing a slave with overwhelming/painful pleasure" - BrattyPrincessAnna
If the slave cums without the domme's permission? Sound the alarms because there will be trouble.
"Either I block/ban them for a certain amount of time, to torture them with being unable to contact me. Or, I make sure to give them extra humiliating tasks, usually things involving public humiliation to teach them a lesson." - Miss_MoonMoon
It's a world of pain and pleasure to be a slave under a domme's boot. As we mentioned before, there is plenty of demand for dom/sub vids on MV. And there certainly is no shortage of diversity of taste when it comes to these vids.
"My clientele is on the higher end and tends to favor exclusive high quality, couture femdom clips tailored to their needs and desires, that they can view as often as they like, rather than cam sessions that are usually complicated to schedule, not to mention too intimidating for many..." - TheOnlyTheodora
So remember to check them out on MV everyone!
And we want to now direct the question to you, the readers. What goes into making a quality dom/sub relationship? What are your unique methods in conquering a slave? Let us know in the comments.
- MV Team
Dommes featured in this vid:
Nice to see femdoms expanding.
All this complaining really? Over a short dom video? Geez you're a tough crowd to please! I thought MV did an amazing job!!
I respect everyone's own sexual preference. However, this is garbage quality, composition, subject and performance. Kinda disappointed this is being featured... And I felt a little sick to my stomach after watching it.
It is absolutely ridiculous that the top earning, top awarded domme of the year, GoddessKristie has been completely snubbed. It would have been really nice to have given her recognition here she truly deserves it
Thank you pet. I appreciate this a lot
I think that it is ridiculous and disappointing that they ignored the top earning and top awarded domme of the year on their site - GoddessKristie. I agree that GoddessKristie could have brought a lot to this article as well. It would have been nice to see Domme of the Year mentioned at least and given some recognition as well. Other fetishes should also be considered.
Thank you pet.
I am glad that Femdom is becoming more popular on MV. I am however disappointed that this article lacks the most popular and the crowned Domme of the year GoddessKristie. To have an article on Femdom and not include the websites Best Domme is poorly done and suggests that the awards offer don't actually mean anything. GoddessKristie could have brought a lot to this article, on how to keep Femdom growing and how to get new people involved in it.
its poorly done. where are the footfetish? ASS fetish? and not all men like to be called Loser. looks like they are completly obssessed with Money. Findom is fetish. but most of my clients are much more into feet, jerk off instruction. sensual domme. its a sad stereotype I see here.
Thank you
Agreed Princess Lilcherry, there is a massive foot fetish base out there, as well as CBT, slave crush, pain play, wax, Electric play, ice play, sensory deprivation and a zillion more sweet fetishes under the BDSM umbrella
Why would you focus on financial domination? It isn't a popular fetish. It's popular among girls because the idea of money being given for practically nothing is appealing. Among the submissive men, its actually incredibly unpopular. Most men find it distasteful when girls so blatantly ask for money as they are already paying. If you want to try to make fetish more prominent on the site, you should bring light to more of the popular fetishes, such as Small Penis Humiliation, Cuckold, Humiliation, Body Worship, and Jerk off Instruction.
Totally with you. my most common fetish are feet, ass, jerk off instruction. and not every guy like to be called Loser also. I find this video very 'cliché' .
this website is so fucking racist and promotes beastiality but them not featuring the specific fetish of your choice is the distasteful line they've crossed? lmao y'all white girls only give a fuck about yourselves I'm so sick of it. Imagine how it feels to be a domme of color, and NEVER get featured by manyvids, EVER. Or better yet, imagine what it's like selling videos on here, and not being a blue eyed, thin, blonde haired woman (which 3 of the pictured dommes above are)
if the only issue you see is the fact that these women are being recognized for their own specific form of dom/sub relationships, then you're messed up.
Manyvids isn't racist. They support and promote women of all color and body types. These aren't just blonde haired, blue eyed dommes. If you dislike the site so much, then leave. It isn't the CLIP sites responsibility to bring you men who would buy your videos. They bring traffic to the site and then it is your job to make content people would want to pay for. Before you begin spreading a hateful narrative, in which you are the victim, how about you take a look at your profile and twitter and see how you can better your profile. Don't blame a company for not doing well.
I am upset that one of their first introductions to Fetish heavily involves a more extreme Fetish. When trying to encourage vanilla men to experiment with new fetishes, you shouldn't start them out with something this intense. As a successful domme, I know that this wasn't the best Fetish to portray in the video.
Now kindly stop bashing the site you work for with your ignorance and move on with your day.
Love it!💗💗💗
I do love your video editor Well done!
Love it! 💕
Awesome!
Pure awesomeness!
Great stuff, just a shame some of the older and established lifestyle Dommes were not featured those who are in their late 30s/40s/50s and beyond, those who have decades of real time experience living within the M/s or D/s lifestyle
I feel like they overlooked a lot of wonderful dommes. I don't know why they chose who they did. They also focused on one fetish instead of showing the more popular fetishes.
waw
All girls in vid cool
But Theodora
Hot! I love it!
I know! I thought so too! The editor of these videos does an AMAZING job!