You are celibate, but not voluntarily or because of religious reasons.This clip is a perfect reminder of why being a virgin makes you such a loser. First of all, it is NOT normal to be an adult virgin, and it is NOT common, so don’t start thinking that you “aren’t alone” in this. I can’t think of anyone in my personal life who is actually still a virgin. Remaining a celibate stroker for me would be better than attempting awkward and uncoordinated first-time sex anyways, and you know it!