Don't get me wrong, I love your step-mom - my step-sister. You're so lucky to have her, but there is a disconnect. Your step-Mother somehow believes that abstinence is the only way to go. That's just crazy! Your age is fucking all the time. The fact that she thinks nobody should be having sex at this point is ridiculous. She's always been this way though. Like I said, she's great but she's so disconnected. It's just a good idea that I take care of you in this area. As long as you're safe, you can do whatever you want. A vagina is not a scary thing. Oh, and if you want to turn on a girl, call it a PUSSY. They come in all shapes and sizes. I'll show you. Mine is more mature, more of the kind of pussy you'll see in older women - and I bet you'll be wishing they were all like this!