You’re nervous. It’s time for your quarterly review at work, and your boss—who is usually very quick about these things—has scheduled a longer time to meet with you than usual. You’re even more nervous when she starts to talk to you: pointing out that your work has been substandard and that you seem distracted. She suspects inadequacies in other parts of your life have been leaking into your job performance. She couldn’t possibly know your little secret…could she?