Jerk Off Instruction, Orgasm Control If you want to stroke for me , you need explicit , verbal permission. You are eagerly waiting for me to give you that command now. Hands up , no touching , no rubbing , nothing. Put your hands to your sides and listen very carefully to each and every one of my words because you are waiting to hear “permission to stroke.” I want to test your devotion , your commitment to growing and deepening your bond to me. Do you want that or you just a pathetic jerk off addict who only cares about stroking? Do you want more than just stroking? Do you want to be better? Are you in this , or not?