Controlling a man is the simplest thing in the world. Nothing is easier. Every man already has a leash attached to him that he is led by and drives all of his decision making; his dick. Finding what triggers a man and arousing his cock will easily have him crawling on his knees and sniffing up my skirt. Associating a man's pleasure with obeying my commands and pleasing me arouses his cock on a whole new level, which will make him crave feeling it over and over again. Just like that his body and mind fall under my control, all through his cock. Taking in the truth of my words and stroking to them easily tugs on your leash and has you craving this control.