This is my first time using stinging nettle. It is a plant that essentially has little spikes on it that are painful when stinging, but then it turns into a burning/itching sensation shortly after. I start off by masturbating and giving myself a ruined orgasm, and then I begin gently pressing the plant on my vagina. I progress into spanking myself with it including a little of my butt. I continue this for 3 ruined orgasms. On the 2nd round I also take some of the most potent part of the part and press it onto my clit. Then, on the third round I include spanking my boobies with it. Finally, I can cum. : ) (I was pretending/fantasizing that it was a punishment. : D)