Watch as Valentine Vonbettie puts the pain on me in the best possible way, the way I think most people practice BDSM at home in real life. (And believe me there is PAIN! I still have the marks!) This is a real life BDSM video. Valentine Vonbettie and I are both performers, but the play is 100% real. There is chatting, there is giggling, and there is SSC communication all the way through.