I'll tell you why you should stop dating while giving you jerk off instructions and some other fun (for me) tasks. You should stop going on dates. You don’t need to. You’re not smooth enough to turn up to a date and get any woman to fall for you. You must find it stressful. I’m sure you find it hard trying to meet a woman. If you manage to get her to agree to a date, then you need to start thinking about where to take her and how to impress her. Dates are expensive too. All that effort for nothing. You’re going through all that stress just for more disappointment and rejection. I’ve got a much easier and fulfilling solution for you.