I don't need to lift a finger to tear you away from your life. It's already happening. See, there's no need for me to humiliate your wife or family. It's unnecessary. You are addicted to me and that addiction will lead you to a complete overhaul. You will crave me when you can't have me. You will resent every obligation that keeps you from serving me better. You need to indulge and you can't have anything come between us. You're tired of sneaking around and hiding how much you're spending. Eventually this addiction will eat you up and you'll snap and sign those divorce papers just so you can feed it freely.