It's not a conscious choice for you to remain abstinent for religious reasons, you're just an incel. You're not a virgin because of some purity pledge, you're just a dateless loser. You would love to get laid but you hide behind these excuses for you don't look completely lame. But it's too late for you, if this were still a choice, you'd have met someone by now. Just admit, you're going to be a single virgin for the rest of your life, and religion has nothing to do with it.