I know a little secret. It's one you don't want anyone else to know. You've kept it to yourself all these years because you are too embarrassed to admit it to even yourself. You're a virgin. You likely have friends, even female ones. You've hit on women. You're on those dating apps. But you can't ever close. Every time you express interest in a woman, she either ghosts you or friend zones you. There's no winning here. They don't want you. It's bothered you for years. Always in the back of your mind. You can't let it go. People tell you "just be yourself, you'll meet someone" or "there's someone out there for everyone", but you know deep down that's a lie. You're a virgin, and you'll always be one.