i'm not out to hurt nobody like some people are into , maybe you could just wear all black maybe a collar and leash use a ball gag i thought i read you had nipple clamps with light spanking/ whipping whatever one you prefer and during the spanking / whipping would be pov focusing between the the impact and your facial expressions and your collar and leash would be used to lead you lets say from the living room to the bedroom where you would play with the nipple clamps you only have to wear the gag only during the spanking/whipping i forgot to mention that and when your done playing with the clamps you can use what you want to throat fuck with a dildo or torso unless your feeling brave and want to use your machine, then you can just fuck yourself with your torso or fuck machine to completion however you want