It's the basis of every BDSM interaction, and every femdom domme/sub relationship: the power exchange. You give me your power. How much of it? That's what we're figuring out. Most slaves have a fantasy of complete submission or total power exchange. You want me to make every decision for you and control every facet of your life. In reality, most of you can't handle it or can't afford it. It takes a lot for me to be willing to micromanage a submissive to that degree and you'd have to be exceedingly wealthy. Partial power exchange on the other hand, is a lot more reasonable. What if I controlled your entire sex life? Chose when you fucked, when you jerked, and everything in between? What if I chose your entire wardrobe and dressed you in nothing but women's clothing? There are plenty of options, the only question is, what are you willing to give up to me? Everything or something, either way you're giving in.