You know how much she loves you. She loves making you feel good. It's starting to feel so one-sided though. Where is all of your attention for her? When will she be the one getting all of the pleasure in the bedroom? She's all dolled up, but it isn't for you.
You are going to watch, and you are not going to stroke. This is HER orgasm, and you can enjoy it without any physical pleasure. Grabbing a vibrator from under her pillow, she presses her to her clit and continues reminding you to NOT grab yourself. If you do, your entire relationship is in jeopardy.