Your wife is taking up too much of your time. Your spending time focused on her and what she wants versus prioritizing me, which might make sense to most people. After all, you did make your vows to her and not me, but I don't deal with coming in second place. IF you want to stay involved with me, it's time to put me first. Prioritize me and spend on me, regardless of how your wife feels. I'm not a secret that you hide away in the bathroom with. If you want to keep any of my attention and not have me tell you to fuck right off its time to put me first from now on. Go on, maybe you even need to tell your wife about me...