She refuses to fuck you doesn't she ? It's obvioulys a plethora of reasons . She isn't attracted to you or your sex. She only married you because you provide for her. It's been that way your entire life .Women not paying you any attention unless there's a benefit . She won't even pity fuck you . It's clear that she has something on the side and you should do the beta thing and look the other way . It's the least you could do .