Going behind her back isn’t a new thing, is it? You tell yourself it’s not cheating if you aren’t fucking another woman. But giving away your time, energy, admiration and money doesn’t seem to be any lesser of an offense. You’re a pathetic man that can’t even be upfront with his partner, but in all honesty, she’s better off without you! You’re weighing her down and she deserves to be set free. One day she’ll find out what you’ve been doing and you’ll have no defense as she turns everyone against you for your lying, cheating ways. Why draw out the inevitable? Just end it and save her the REAL heartache.