Pull down my pants to see if the pants are dry or not. I'm proud of staying dry, but you decide to train me to wet anyway. I'm proud of staying dry, but you know that deep down I want to wet and coax/instruct me to go in my pants. At first, you would instruct me to pull down my pants to show my underpants. Then there would be a lead-up to each distinct start/stop! instruction. The first start/stop would be very short, then a little more, then a lot more. Each time, there would be more and more teasing at my growing embarrassment at not being able to hide wetting and my desperation at stopping each time (avoid negativity, and cursing/overly-adult talk) It could end with an instruction to pull up pants (big boy now, have to wait an hour before a change, etc.