Your inability to escape this kink is two-fold. Sure, blackmail at its core prevents you from jerking and running. It takes away your anonymity and ensures that there will be consequences for disobedience. It makes online and distance domination so much more real, with much higher stakes. But that's just the literal sense that causes blackmail to keep you in its grips. Deep down inside of you though, you're an addict who craves the rush and thrill of such a risky fetish. You might complete a contract unscathed and breathe a sigh of relief but inevitably you'll be crawling back to be under my control again. There's no way you can quit.