They say that without the bitter, the sweet isn't as sweet, but I'd argue that, for a masochist, the reverse is just as true: without the syrupy sweetness to lull you into a false sense of security, the crack of the whip just wouldn't sting quite so much. Allowing yourself to be lured in by My sweet smile and soft beauty, only to be snapped back to the merciless reality of how very worthless you are...and you take the emotional, physical, and financial beatings so graciously, all in hopes of hearing that "good boy" fall from My glossy lips. The viewer is referred to as a male; genitalia not mentioned