Femdom is more than chastity, spanking and pegging. Femdom also means discovering and enjoying female sexuality. For me it means: slowness, tenderness, not being fixated on the orgasm. The sound of a hand stroking bare skin. Gentle groans, pleasant sighs. The gentle rise of arousal, without feeling compelled to want to increase this arousal: To pause, to feel. There is a time for hard, horny sex. But not today. Today I want intimacy. Sit back, relax. Maybe you take a nice massage oil and gently massage your cock and balls. No rush, no pressure to cum: Just feel and enjoy.