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I've had many people ask about how to continue talking to a domme in general after the initial approach and setting up an appt. This is a generalization based on a multitude of dommes that have chatted and talked openly about the things they do and don't like. Perhaps you've already played before, perhaps you are just looking for casual conversation after the opening message. Here are some basic protocols to look out for as well as the way changing little bits of verbiage you use could change the way dommes respond and look forward to talking to you. Even though some dommes prefer to keep things just as a job, there are ways to make it less emotionally draining and instead make us look forward to conversing and playing with you. Find ways to connect and stand out as a good submissive by following some of these ideas! These will vary based on domme, but these are very safe catchalls more or less!