I want to own you in every possible way.  And taking my strap is such an intense way of relinquishing your control, and surrendering to me.  You might not be ready for that yet though, we might have to start small.   I don't mind, watching you prepare, and train, and practice makes this journey all the more fun.  And this is how you're going to start training your hole for me.  No toys needed, so no excuses allowed.