I've really been struggling ever since my husband left us. My oldest step-son is incredible, and becoming an amazing man. He helps around the house all of the time, but unfortunately the financial strain of being a single step-mom with two more little ones is getting to be too much. I already work two jobs, my ex doesn't pay his support payments, and I am struggling. My step-son has been saving to move out, and I feel SO BAD asking him to help me with money, but I have no other choice. He is such an amazing boy, he immediately agrees to help. He mentions though, that all he has to change is how much he is going out (and taking girls on dates). So, since he is sacrificing his social and sex life, I offer to repay him in the only thing I can think of. I can satisfy him anytime he wants. At first he is taken aback, and a bit nervous, but step-mommy makes it all better. I really did raise an amazing man.