You are very unhappy and want to talk to your adult step-daughter about her spending. Since she doesn't work and all her support is on you, you are concerned about her infantile attitude towards money and work. She assures you that she can't find a good job, even though she goes on interviews. Of course, it's hard for you to fight with her because she is your step-daughter, your favorite girl. Your conversation drags on, and she hints that it's not the office job at the computer that she's usually offered at an interview. And she might as well be working for you too. She senses your tension and in an instant reads it. And then relieves you of that tension.