Confessions of a cheating wife.... The best way I have found confessing when I was cheating is if you take your husbands dick out first and start sucking it, teasing it, make him want you. Then at the moment he's excited, that is when you tell him what you've done. You tell him then you suck his cock so he cant decide if he's upset or happy because its a mix of things at one moment. This is what I did to my husband, I explained that I sucked the uber drivers cock as I put his in my mouth and he cant help but accept it as a package. Then once I take his cock out of my mouth, I wait to tell him my pussy is full of someone else's cum until after he slides it in using the old cum as lube.