How do you get really good at something? You practice, practice a lot, everyday if you can, multiple times a day if you can. Get some help to motivate you, and give you an extra hand if you need it right? Well, I am practicing, and I have help. These toys are huge, and heavy so I can't always hold them by myself while trying to relax enough to stretch my asshole to its limit. I think I'm getting there, don't you?