Learning to play with myself and understanding how to pleasure my own pussy was a big part of my sexual evolution from sexually repressed Mormon, to sexually liberated hotwife. I know other ex-Mormon women who are curious about the lifestyle that ask me how they can unlock their own sexuality. They often say things like, "I'm just not horny. I want to be, but I'm not." I will usually ask them if they masturbate and the answer is "no" or "rarely." My advice to them is to make masturbation and thinking sexually a priority! When you have spent your entire life repressing sexual thoughts and urges, you have to practice and work on rewiring all of that, and it takes time and commitment. I challenge any of my sexually repressed ex-Mormon girlfriends coming to me for advice to masturbate to orgasm daily for a month and see if it doesn't become a natural craving afterwards. The feedback I have received is that it definitely does reignite that natural urge and craving for sexual gratification