Popular Trends I Refuse to Follow (And I’m Happier For It) Some things are popular… but that doesn’t mean they’re right for me. I don’t follow trends just because everyone else does. I choose what actually works for my life, my standards, and my wellbeing. This isn’t about telling anyone else how to live — I don’t believe in that. This is one of those videos where I go slightly off script, in a very open and honest way. It’s just a reflection on what’s actually made me happier. And honestly — I am happier for it. Not everything is meant to be followed.