You've been running the “I’m not getting intimate by choice” story for a while now. It's a good story. Disciplined. Focused. A man who simply has other priorities. Framing yourself as a monk works if you don't look too closely at what you're actually doing with your time. Femdom didn't do this to you. It named you. Being “born again” isn't an insult - it's a correction. You were always going to end up here. The only thing that changed is that now you know the word for it. Come find Me in the Garden. I've saved you a seat.