Part of submitting to a Mistress is, of course, the actual submission. Learning to put Her needs and desires above yours, and learning to follow Her command in all things.But another, equally important part of submitting is accepting that you will suffer under Her control. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ve failed or disappointed Her—it’s just how things are supposed to be. It’s a sign that all is right with the world. She is content, and you are not. Suffering isn’t always a natural skill, though. You need to learn it. And I will help you.